EXPECTATIONS

Why do we expect things from others.....or the people around us? Even we expect a lot from GOD. Expectations are a must in every relation. With time as relation becomes stronger, expectations keeps on increasing and increasing. At a point of time, it start creating problems and the bond weakens. How to handle this?? Saying that don't keep expectations from anybody will be wrong. Everybody expects something from others but don't want others to expect from them.

I always loved people around me expecting from me.I expect from them too and got hurt a lot when they don't fulfill it. I always tried to be SPECIAL or u can say best friend in everybody's(around me) life n i was always ready to do whatever needed to help in each n every way but i was always treated as NORMAL. Still thanks for that. I think its my mistake that i expected that much......They never asked me to do so. They never committed that they will be doing whatever i expect. But i must say that i expected very little from others as compared to my expectations from me to fulfill the expectations of others.

I think i am becoming selfish now....Ya u can say that...I am more concerned about me than others around me..Am i right???i don't know

The life till job, marriage is the easiest one. But still we are unable to handle it properly... unable to fulfill the expectations of people around us...unable to make them happy....Then what will we be doing after completion of this phase. After marriage and in job...so many new relations..so many new expectations....How will we handle all that.....how ???
Are we mature enough to handle these things or still more maturity is to come ??? I don't know..i m totally confused about this...GOD help me please.....