EXPECTATIONS

Why do we expect things from others.....or the people around us? Even we expect a lot from GOD. Expectations are a must in every relation. With time as relation becomes stronger, expectations keeps on increasing and increasing. At a point of time, it start creating problems and the bond weakens. How to handle this?? Saying that don't keep expectations from anybody will be wrong. Everybody expects something from others but don't want others to expect from them.

I always loved people around me expecting from me.I expect from them too and got hurt a lot when they don't fulfill it. I always tried to be SPECIAL or u can say best friend in everybody's(around me) life n i was always ready to do whatever needed to help in each n every way but i was always treated as NORMAL. Still thanks for that. I think its my mistake that i expected that much......They never asked me to do so. They never committed that they will be doing whatever i expect. But i must say that i expected very little from others as compared to my expectations from me to fulfill the expectations of others.

I think i am becoming selfish now....Ya u can say that...I am more concerned about me than others around me..Am i right???i don't know

The life till job, marriage is the easiest one. But still we are unable to handle it properly... unable to fulfill the expectations of people around us...unable to make them happy....Then what will we be doing after completion of this phase. After marriage and in job...so many new relations..so many new expectations....How will we handle all that.....how ???
Are we mature enough to handle these things or still more maturity is to come ??? I don't know..i m totally confused about this...GOD help me please.....

What is happiness ??

do u have a perfect answer to this ?? Is there anything that anyone can get and can be happy ?? Can i buy or steal happiness ?? The answer is NO.
For me it is a very complex thing to understand. Everybody has got something different that can make him/her happy. N no one can remain happy for a long time. U wish something. if u get that u are happy if u don't u are not happy. If u get and are happy then u wish for something else n again u may or may not be happy. It is not related only with wealth, health, fame etc. These things can bring happiness for a very short duration. A poor person can be much more happier than a rich person. But making others happy is something that will always bring u more and more happiness. Always keeping a positive attitude towards life can help bringing happiness.
Enjoy every moment of your life no matter how long or short it is. Set goals for your life achieve them and enjoy them and go for the next.

Happiness is something that comes from within you. Its the happiness of some other that can make you happy. That someone can be different for different people. So always try to make people around you happy. Happiness always doubles whenever shared.

Always be happy (as i always say :) ) enjoy your present to its fullest. Kyonki kal ho na ho...

What is happiness to you ?? Comments invited...

TEACHING

Teaching – considered as a sacred profession. Teacher has been given 2^nd position after parents in everybody’s life. Parents give us life, but teachers are the one who tell us how to live it.
A very famous saying, "A good teacher is like a candle - it consumes itself to light the way for others."

Teaching and Learning always go hand in hand. Learning is endless. There is always something to be learned. Everybody has something to teach or rather say we can learn from him/her. A person can’t be a good teacher if he doesn’t learn something from his students. Good teachers consider teaching and learning as two simultaneous processes. You teach something and you learn something at the same time.

A good teacher always tries to use new methods to make learning easy as it is rightly said "If a child can't learn the way we teach, maybe we should teach the way they learn". Some qualities that make a teacher good can be – Patience, Eagerness for learning, Non egoism, Confidence, Positive attitude, Understanding, life long learner etc.

The persons used to teach us our course books, or lecture us in schools and colleges are not the only teachers. Everybody in this world is a teacher, can give us a lesson to learn. Our parents are our First Teachers. We learn the basic skills of living from them. Their hard work, their success, their failures, always makes us learn something. I have learnt a lot from my mom n dad. I always got an inspiration of never losing hope from my dad’s experiences. He always made me do things better and much better. My mom taught me how to survive in your bad times. Thanks mom n dad for teaching me all that.

Time itself is a teacher. It teaches us many lessons. In fact, a person can teach himself. If one can just look into himself, his life, he can get a lot more lessons anybody else can give him.

So friends always just be ready to learn and to teach too. Learn from everybody, ur frnds, ur enemies, ur seniors, ur juniors. (But act upon good ones only :P)

I will also life to reveal one of the suspense from my first post. The person who motivated me to write, improve upon my English is no one other than one of my good friends Vj (as I always call him). Thanks to you too.